Publishers Weekly reviews Parenting Children with Mental Health Challenges
Vlock brings her personal experience as the mother of two children with mental health challenges to a realistic, empathetic guide targeted at ensuring her parenting peers “don’t try taking this trip solo” and “feel stronger and better,” rather than isolated and overwhelmed…. Her advice feels both relatable and reliable, coming from personal experience—her own as well as that of other parents—and from mental health professionals. Parents in the same boat as she will find this a valuable addition to their self-care toolbox. (Nov.)
From “On Animals and Virtue”
She was an unlucky mare, an erstwhile school horse: sway-backed and tired and hungry for love. I was unlucky myself, and did not mind her ungainliness…
From “An Anguished Choice To Help A Son With Mental Illness”
For years, [my son’s] death wish trumped everything. If he could not perform the act himself, then he wanted me to do it for him. It was the one and only sacrifice I could never make for him.
From “The First Time With Charlotte: New York City, circa 1996”
From “Angst Begets Art: On Finding Beauty In A Life Of Anxiety”
From “Breasts are not a Requirement”
From “Small Change”
One night in the slow, hot crawl of late summer, our cat spontaneously combusted.
(nominated for the Pushcart Prize)
From “Dentist of the Wild West”
Right while I’m getting my braces, and saliva I can’t swallow is pooling in the back of my mouth, Doc Hallowell tells me about square dancing.
From “Benjy, Awake”
On a blossom-scented spring day, my son Benjy, almost eleven and off kilter, begged me to help him kill himself.
From ”There Be Mental Illness Here”
Ten years ago, things were already going steeply downhill but I was not prepared to admit it.
Ute Schmidt’s first lesson, upon arriving in Boston, is that Americans talk fast and laugh at things that are not funny.
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